Thinking about homeschooling? This post shares 10 reasons to homeschool that are real, honest, and based on what’s working for our family right now.
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Homeschooling was never part of my original plan.
When my oldest went off to kindergarten, I just assumed that was how it was supposed to go. But something didn’t sit right. I couldn’t stop thinking about homeschooling—why I hadn’t given it more thought.
So my husband and I sat down and made a simple list. Pros and cons. I needed clarity. And as I wrote, the pros—the reasons to homeschool—kept adding up. They weren’t just practical. They were personal. They were about our family, our faith, how we wanted to raise our kids and the kind of life we wanted to live.
After about a month of public school, we chose to homeschool, and we’re so glad we did.
To be honest, I’ve watched the shift in what’s considered “normal” in society—especially in schools—and as a mom, it’s unsettling. There’s so much I want to protect their hearts and minds from. Homeschooling has allowed me to be more intentional about what they’re exposed to at what age and how they learn about the world.
Now, I know that might sound like I’m “sheltering” them to some people. But honestly? As their parent, isn’t it part of my job to protect them? To give them the space to grow a strong sense of self and confidence, without outside pressures shaping them too soon? To raise them to be kind, grounded human beings with a heart for Jesus?
The world is loud. It’s full of distractions, disruptions, and influences that pull in directions I’m not always comfortable with. Homeschooling gives us the opportunity to build a foundation first—before they’re sent out into it.
Our Reasons to Homeschool:
We get more time together as a family
One of the biggest blessings of homeschooling has been how much time we get to spend together. We love doing things as a family. Our days are filled with real connection and not just limited to a few hours after school or on the weekends. We also get to travel together, which is something that’s really important to us. We’re not tied to school breaks or holiday weekends—we can explore, adventure, and make memories as we go. Homeschooling gave us back our time together!
Shorter days, longer childhood
Our days are shorter, slower, and full of time for play, wonder, and just being little! Kids are only kids once! They’re not rushing out the door or coming home exhausted. There’s more space to explore their own interests and enjoy being kids.
Individualized learning
Every kid learns differently, and homeschooling lets me teach in a way that works best for him. I can slow down when something’s tricky or move ahead when he’s ready. Some days are super productive, others are more relaxed—and that’s okay. It’s not a one-size-fits-all. It’s learning that fits him.
We get to include God into our school day
From Bible stories and scripture memory to simply stopping to pray in the middle of a hard moment, Jesus is welcome in every part of our school day. And that foundation is something I’m so grateful we get to build together! A few of my favorite resources to incorportate faith into our curriclum has been, this Bible Verse Handwriting book, this children’s Bible, and If I Could Ask God Anything: Awesome Bible Answers for Curious Kids.
A safe and supportive environment
Homeschooling gives us a peace of mind—no bullying, no peer pressure, and no early exposure to things they’re not ready for (because let’s face it, kids are exposed to way too much these days, and sadly, it’s considered “normal”). I don’t have to worry about school shootings or lockdown drills. It’s heartbreaking that these are real concerns in schools today. At home, they’re safe, secure, and surrounded by love, and that’s a comfort I’m SO thankful for.
Our family is the main influence
They look up to each other, learn from each other, and spend their days with people who genuinely care about them. We get to model kindness, patience (even on the hard days), and forgiveness. It’s definitely not perfect, but it’s real—and I truly believe those relationships are being shaped in such meaningful ways.
More time for positive socialization
Homeschooling doesn’t mean we’re locked at home as some may think. We still have co-ops, playdates, field trips, and all kinds of experiences—but in ways that I believe are more intentional. They’re learning how to interact with people of all ages, not just kids in their grade.
Flexible schedules
Sick days, appointments, vacations, family needs, life changes—it all fits. We’re not trying to squeeze life into a school calendar. We’re building school around our life. That flexibility takes so much pressure off.
We know what’s happening in their day
I get to witness the “aha!” moments, their progress, their struggles—and be part of it all. I’m not just hearing bits and pieces at pick-up time or getting the usual “I don’t know” when I ask how the day went. I’m right there, helping them grow, celebrating every little victory and navigating through the challenges.
We get to protect their hearts and shape their foundation
Like I mentioned before, I’m fully aware some people might call it “sheltering,” but I see it as parenting with intention. This world is LOUD and often doesn’t reflect the values we’re trying to instill. Homeschooling lets us build their confidence and character in a safe space, where they’re rooted in truth, love, and grace BEFORE being influenced by everything else.
Right Now, This Is What Works
I know this may not be forever. Life changes. Seasons shift. And if something happens that leads us down a different path one day, that’s okay. The beauty of homeschooling is that it doesn’t have to be permanent to be meaningful. Right now, it’s what’s working for our family—and it’s bringing us so much peace, joy, and growth.
And I know as the littles grow, and I go from homeschooling one to two… and even three, it’ll come with new challenges. But it’ll come with new joy, too. It’s a learning curve for all of us. Still, deep down I know—if I hadn’t given homeschooling a try, I’d always wonder. And today, I’m so thankful I did.
